things that I am going to work on

I realize that it has been almost 3 months since I have posted anything here. It like usual has been a little crazy around here. I've had a lot of trouble doing much of anything with my foot, much less trying to get something coherent written. So I am going to try to get something no matter how silly, irrelevant, worthless, put up every day. I know I said this last time I posted, but I think since the kids go down for a nap everyday at the same time, I should be able to take just a few minutes to let you all know what is going on in our life that day.

First things first, I have to tell you how incredibly proud of my hubby I am! He has gotten a new job that is going to be so much better for us all the way around! He will be working full time with the 129th Army band in Nashville TN as the supply sergeant. This means that we will be moving to Nashville in November. We have been trying to move there for almost 3 years and can not be more excited. We are all very excited about the opportunities that will be opening up for us there. Brad is going to be much happier (and me) as he is not going to have to work 7 days a week. He will be able to take vacations, and have holidays and days when federal offices are off off. I think the thing he is most excited about is that he is going to be able to play more in the nashville area. He as we know is one of those sick people that can play anything. He is a vocalist/guitarist/saxophonist. He has already been told about people that want him to come play and we are not even there yet. He has missed playing more than anything. Since he will be working with the band he will be able to practice on a daily basis, and not have myself and kids yelling at him when we need things. This is Brads biggest dream, playing, he could never be more happy than when he is playing music!

Next on the list, my foot, I broke it July 15th and as of yesterday it is just now starting to heal. The good news is that I am finally able to put light weight on it. I am extremely hopeful that I am going to be able to get back to a normal routine and help my husband get stuff done around the house. Brad has been doing almost everything for the last 3 months. I am truly lucky that I have such a great hubby and he has done so much.

Other things on the list to work on is getting on a better schedule so that I have extra time. I need to find a schedule that will work with possibly homeschooling Abby completely on my own for a while, because of the move. Organization, of everything. Although most of our stuff is organized it is not always the most functional because of how it is organized. We have a very cute house, but not necessarily the best lay out for our particular family and it makes it hard to make everything functional. We will also be going through EVERYTHING we own to see if we actually use it on a normal basis or if we can donate it to goodwill. I would love to be able to have a yard sale but do not have the time or effort to put toward it, it is a huge amount of work. Finding a new church home in a new city. I'm very nervous about this one, we have finally found a community that we feel comfortable in here. I have a bible study with ladies and other mothers that I absolutely love. I know I will be able to find a new one, but it just makes me nervous!

With the whole move the only thing that I am worried about is finding new groups of friends for myself and Abby that I feel comfortable with. I'm not worried about finances (we will make it work, we can live without lots of things that we have and be perfectly happy), I'm not worried about the actual move, I know that this is the best thing we can do for our family and that it will all be ok. I am worried about the social part of it. Although I am a very social person, when meeting new people, I am a very shy and uncomfortable person. I'm glad that I do know a lot of people in the Nashville area, but just not knowing that I am going to have to get to know new people is a bit unsettling. But once again it will be okay! All I can do is pray for strength and confidence.

I am hopeful for a smooth transition for us all. I know deep down that everything is going to be okay and be better for us in the long run. We are going to be okay. WE will all be together and have a better family outlook. We are going to be fine! As long as we are happy and healthy that is all that we need!

I'm sorry this is random and probably incomplete. But thank you for sticking with me!

My broke foot

Lots of you have asked what I did to break my foot, so I figured I would include my craziness in the blog so here goes.

On Thursday, Tyman and I went to the grocery store, we had absolutely no food, we had just gotten home from a two week vacation and had a very very empty fridge. After spending all our money at the grocery store. I brought Tyman home and put him in his crib for his morning nap.

I made my trips to unload the van. On the 2nd trip I went out the front door and started down the 1 step and some how lost my footing. Some how I fell and got my right foot rapped around my left calf. As I was falling I heard my foot pop. I knew I had hurt it but I have fallen and heard it pop SEVERAL times throughout my life. When I got up I knew something was wrong, I called Brad and told him I had fallen and we both came to the conclusion that I would ice my foot and wait to see how it felt/looked after icing.

My foot never looked swollen, or bruised, so we both thought that more than likely I had just sprained it. Since it was still a little painful we decided that we would go to the walk in clinic and have it looked at just to make sure. They xrayed my foot and told me that I had indeed broken it and had done it well. They wrapped my foot and sent me on the way with the expectation that I would have an orthopedic appt the next day.

Friday morning we called the Dr's office and they were trying to get everything from my insurance and were trying to get me an appt with the ortho to decide what actions needed to be taken. After a while, they called back and told me that there was no way I could get an appt that day but I did have one first thing Monday morning. They did call in some crutches for me so that I didn't have to walk on it.

Thanks to Tammie my mother-in-law I had a boot to keep the kids off of it and was able to walk. I made it through the weekend very well. I had very little pain and was able to function quiet well.

This morning, Brad took me to the orthopedic DR where I recieved a cast. A beautiful blue cast. (i will post photos both of m foot and the cast at the end.) The Dr. was pretty sure that I would not need surgery, but wanted me off my foot for 3 weeks. They put a no weight bearing cast on my right foot, which is very difficult to function. After my 3 weeks I will go back and have another xray and they will decide what to do then. Hopefully I will not need another cast and I can be put in a boot so that I can start putting pressure on my foot and return to a semi normal life.

If you look right below my toes on the left side I broke the bone on the side of my foot. It goes all the way through and then chipped a part above it. (the bone sticks out from the rest)

My two ladies.

I started this post on mommies day, but it never seemed right and do justice, so i've had another crack at it.

They say that men are lucky if they have one or two good friends, but mostly have acquaintances, while women are the opposite, I do not necessarily agree with this. Although this maybe true for most women, it is definitely not true for me. I am very lucky in the fact that I SEVERAL SEVERAL friends that even after not seeing or talking to each other for long periods of time can still get together and seem like no time has passed since last being together. Those friends I would do anything for and have a blast with when I actually do get to hang out with them.

But then I have these two girlfriends that are more like sisters. I trust them with mine and my families lives. These two girls are the only two people outside of my direct family that I would trust to raise my kids should something happen to myself and Brad. I know that Brad and I would take their kids without any questions asked, in a heartbeat. I know that when we are all together, we view each others kids as our own. They would not have a problem disciplining my kids or allowing me to discipline their kiddos. We understand why we do the things the way we do. There is no questioning anything. Our beliefs and the way we raise our kids are very similar. We can just sit in the same room having nothing to say and be completely comfortable.

One of these women is my age. I met her 7 years ago, not that long in the grand scheme of things. Lets face it when we met she was a newly wed and I was getting engaged. We had just joined the army and made it through basic training, but still in training. She and I stuck together pretty much from the moment we met. I'm not sure what brought us together at first. But it's almost like we are the same dang person. We have the same obsessive tendancies, we react to situations in the same way, there is no shame in talking about ANYTHING with us. We have that comfort with our relationship that I never knew existed. Now don't get me wrong, we have definitely had our disagreements, and even a period of time that we didn't get along at all. But for some strange reason it just all the sudden ended and we were back to being like nothing ever happened. Our kids are like each others kids. I love how I can look at her and just laugh and it won't stop for hours.

My next lady, is quite a bit younger than me, by 7 years. When I first met her she was working as one of "my employees" while she was in high school. I guess we "knew" each other for about a year before I really started getting to know her. I knew her work ethic, which was not like any of the other employees that worked with us. She was hard working, kind, polite, well mannered, and just all around a great employee (person). I trusted her with the store, as she had proven to me that she was someone to be trusted. Two years ago, I really started to get to know her on a non employee level, but friend. I had to work at the strawberry festival and my then two year old daughter did not have school so I needed someone to come and keep her while I was working for that short period of time. At the time I had no one that I trusted to be with Abby outside of the family. So I felt comfortable asking this person to keep Abby since I would be able to see her the entire time. (Yes, I am and was a paranoid mom, she is still the only person that watches my babies) This was the start of everything. She was screwed then, not to mentioned trapped. We took her with us to keep Abby for two weeks in Gatlinburg while Brad and I were on annual training. I knew that I would be able to get to both of them if I was needed, and for the most part it was just a couple hours at a time. That poor girl, she was so innocent, and she spent two weeks with Brad (which she didn't know at all), my 2.5 year old, and myself which she only knew as her boss, not to mention all the crazy army friends we have. But she made it out knowing a COMPLETELY different (and maybe a little too much) side of me than she expected. She obviously was not scarred too badly, because she is still around.

This young lady has done so much for our family. She watches the kids just to play with them. Last summer when Tyler was just an infant, she would come over so that I could go to the grocery store or run errands and just play with Abby. She would never let me pay her, which was a life saver as we live on one income, but made me sad, I felt like we were abusing her. But that is how she is. She took off every wednesday so that she could come over. She would cook dinner and play for hours! She is so easy to be with, although she is much more laid back and reserved(?) than my family, she is such a blessing to me.

These two ladies have definitely had an amazing impact on my life. Both of them are very christian women that I try to mirror my life after. Both ladies are godmothers (one will be in the fall, Tyman is not yet baptized) to my kids. Both are family oriented, and willing to give up everything for the kids.

I really can not put into words what I feel about these two ladies, I just want to cry when I think about how much they have done for me. I love you both very much! You are so special to us, please don't ever forget that. I love you.

My sweet man!

Hims likes to be like hims Mommy!

Years ago, and I do mean years ago, 7 I believe, I was in this same scenario except I was 21, not 1! Last night Tyman and I were playing and he was acting like I was chasing him. When I looked up at him he got really excited and tried to turn and run and fell into the fireplace/entertainment center.

See where Mr. Potato head is, well that is the offending part. He hit the bridge (maybe a little

lower, but thats the best way to explain it) on the corner of the base. Needless to say I thought

he had broken his nose, or might even need stitches. Nope this kid is also a trooper! He cried for

maybe 15 minutes while we were trying to ice it, but when we just decided to put a band-aid on it

he was great and ready to go! Surprisingly enough he hasn't tried to pull on it or take it off, its

almost like it isn't even there! Best thing is he doesn't even look like he got in the fight!

He obviously has a little cut, and a small red bruise from the cut to the nostril/cheek area on the right side (looking at him). We are keeping a band-aid on it until it heals completely. He rubs his nose a lot with his allergies, and it keeps breaking open. With the band-aid he doesn't even touch his nose.

I am unfortunately at this time not able to find the picture with me and my nose, but will have it when I go to my grandmas, as she VERY PROUDLY displays it on her fridge. But when I was 21, I put my foot on the middle shelf to tie my shoe, when I bent down to tie said shoe, the shelf fell thus propelling my body to the counter, I too, cracked my nose on the edge, and have a scar to remember this incident by. I proudly wore a bright blue spongebob band aid across my face for several days! I promise to upload the picture as soon as I can get my hands on it!

Apparently I forgot

Apparently I forgot how to write in my blog, its only been about 2 months no big deal right? I'm going to try to get back on track with this.

Since last time I wrote so much has happened, (by the way I have about 5 posts written but not posted) we have had mothers day, my big girl "graduated" from preschool that she gets to go back to next year, June has snuck up on us, and just the craziness that is us is out of control!

I want to first say thanks for my grandma. This little sweet southern bell that she is, has had such an influence on my life. She just makes me laugh, although we don't agree on everything, she is one of my biggest supporters, I talk to her a couple times a week! Poor thing has kicked a surgeries butt! She had her battery for her pacemaker replaced about 2 weeks ago, and has come out the other side just as vibrant and ready to go as ever! It is amazing! The reason I mention her is the older I get the more like her (and of course my mother) I am! Sometimes almost scary to think about how similar I am with them. My step father and hubby are just blown away with how similar we are, it always makes me laugh whenever we are all together, the first thing I hear, is no wonder you do things the way you do, or I see where you get that from.

Tyman, oh Tyman, I just love him. It is so amazing how different my kids are. While Abby is balls to the wall, Tyman is the most cautious child I have ever seen, My mother in law tells me that Abby is exactly how Brad was, and Tyler is exactly like Dusty was. I can live with that, she raised two amazing boys! But anyway Tyler slept all the way through the night last night! This is only like the 3rd time ever! I slept so well last night that now I am over tired from getting too much sleep. Does this ever happen to you, or am I just the only crazy person in the world?

Oh Abby Kate, she is so independant, which is not always a bad thing, and we are not battling as much but somedays! She is so funny, the child loves to read and do school work! We went to the library today and she checked out 17 books, yeah I know! She just loves to work her little brain! I love it!

My poor hubby, is as usual working his bottom off! He has been working pretty much since April 8. I say that because he actually took 3 days of leave before he left for pldc. This is very hard for us, we miss him like crazy, he is super tired all the time! I can't tell you how much I appreciate him working this job though so that I am able to stay home with our babies and still live! I love you Bradley!

I am so very lucky with my life and the way it has turned out! I am so very blessed with family that I have and the life we have! Thank you all for the influences that you have added to my life!